Nonviolent Communication Training Gilmer TX

Nonviolent communication (NVC) is also called compassionate communication because the method focuses on getting needs met using compassion as a motivation rather than fear, guilt, shame, or coercion. The techniques teach you to express yourself without attacking others, and to receive critical messages without taking them personally.

East Texas Medical Center Regional Healthcare System
(903) 841-7100
712 N Wood St
Gilmer, TX
Industry
Mental Health Professional, Osteopath (DO)

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Wendy Jaye Burke
(903) 295-5870
201 Woodcreek Dr
Longview, TX
Specialty
Psychiatry

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Craig L. Moore
(903) 759-1145
206 Pine Tree Rd
Longview, TX
Services
Individual Psychotherapy, Psychological Assessment, Anxiety Disorder (e.g., generalized anxiety, phobia, panic or obsessive-compulsive disorder)
Ages Served
Children (3-12 yrs.)
Adults (18-64 yrs.)
Adolescents (13-17 yrs.)
Older adults (65 yrs. or older)
Education Info
Doctoral Program: Texas A&M University - Commerce
Credentialed Since: 1979-10-12

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Arlis G. Wood
(405) 824-5309; 903 445-3780
1220 Lovers Lane
Longview, TX
Services
Individual Psychotherapy, Couples Psychotherapy, Psychological Assessment
Ages Served
Adults (18-64 yrs.)
Adolescents (13-17 yrs.)
Older adults (65 yrs. or older)
Children (3-12 yrs.)
Education Info
Doctoral Program: U Okla
Credentialed Since: 1982-02-24

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Mark Dale Messer
(903) 297-1852
1300 N 6th St
Longview, TX
Specialty
Psychiatry

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Sabine Valley Center
(903) 843-5518
101 W Madison St
Gilmer, TX
Industry
Mental Health Professional

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Moseley Sally K Lpc Pa
(903) 297-4592
1800 W Loop 281
Longview, TX
Industry
Mental Health Professional, Osteopath (DO), Psychologist

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Joseph Soliman Wassef
(903) 758-4292
3400 W Marshall Ave
Longview, TX
Specialty
Psychiatry, Child Psychiatry

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Brentwood Outreach Center
(903) 297-1712
2020 Bill Owens Pkwy
Longview, TX
Industry
Mental Health Professional, Osteopath (DO)

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Sabine Valley Regional Mental Health & Mental Retardation
(903) 758-2471
107 Woodbine Pl
Longview, TX
Industry
Mental Health Professional

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Nonviolent Communication

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By Katy Butler

At my Memorial Day barbecue one year, I watched in awe as my friend Kathryn fielded baiting questions from a handsome, slightly drunk guest. I can’t remember the words she used, but instead of taking offense, Kathryn responded respectfully, without sacrificing her truth or compromising her dignity. She reminded me of an aikido master—in motion yet centered, calmly melding with her attacker and deflecting his thrusts without harming him.

When I later remarked on how skillfully she had handled him, Kathryn credited something called “nonviolent communication” and lent me a book by its creator, psychologist Marshall Rosenberg. She invited me to join a small group—part of a worldwide network accessible through the Center for Nonviolent Communication website ( www.cnvc.org )—that practices this approach by role-playing situations from life.

Once a month, we sat in a circle of chairs in someone’s living room, participating in role plays: a boundary dispute with a neighbor, a conflict between two singers in an interracial church choir, my tension-charged interactions with my two new teenaged stepsons. Slowly I learned to weather my intense emotions and translate my first, fear-driven thoughts into honest but nonconfrontational language, devoid of blame. Instead of a tape of You always ignore me, (which is a judgment) looping in my brain, I got at why I felt triggered—I feel lonely.

Nonviolent communication (NVC) is also called compassionate communication because the method focuses on getting needs met using compassion as a motivation rather than fear, guilt, shame, or coercion. The techniques teach you to express yourself without attacking others, and to receive critical messages without taking them personally. To do this, NVC follows a four-step protocol: observing and describing an external situation without judgment, articulating the feelings the situation triggers, connecting those feelings to an unmet need, and then making a “specific, doable request” of the other party. The most crucial points in this approach? Listening empathically and strategizing ways to meet others’ needs as well as our own.

A Gentle Giant
Marshall Rosenberg was a clinical psychologist in St. Louis who abandoned his practice in the late 1970s to, as he puts it, “give psychology away” by teaching communication skills on a wider scale. Like his mentor, the humanistic psychologist Carl Rogers, Rosenberg maintains that one of our deepest human needs is to contribute to others’ well-being, so long as our own needs aren’t unfairly compromised in the process.

Rosenberg’s childhood was full of miscommunication and pain. His parents’ marriage was unhappy, and their neighborhood in Detroit was the center of violent race riots in the 1940s. At school, Rosenberg was beaten for being a Jew. These experiences, he recalls, inspired him to explore “what happens to disconnect people from their inherently compassionate nature and what allows some people to stay c...

Author: Katy Butler

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